Reader, It's December 31st, and I just reviewed my 2025. Honestly? I didn't hit most of my goals: Revenue target? Nope. Client goals? Fell short. Growth I wanted? Not there yet. And for a moment, I felt disappointed. Like I'd failed somehow. But then, while facilitating my Create 2026 workshop this week, I had a realization: If I were already the sort of person who gets those results, I'd already have them. So the question isn't 'Why did I fail?' The question is: "Who do I need to become?"...
7 days ago • 3 min read
Reader, 2 days ago, our bathroom door lock stopped working. You know that moment when you turn the thumbturn and... nothing? It just spins uselessly. The door won't lock. My first instinct was to call the locksmith. But something I read recently stopped me. If you're on Justin Welsh's Saturday Solopreneur newsletter, you might have seen his recent story about replacing a special lightbulb in his water filtration system. At first glance, it's just a home maintenance story. But the real lesson...
10 days ago • 3 min read
Reader, Yesterday someone asked me for my advice on how she could fulfil her dream of hiking China's untouched mountains while working her 9-5. We looked at all the possible and feasible options. Eventually, we worked out a plan that she'll be proposing to her manager. In the course of our conversation, she revealed what motivated her to fulfil her dream and live her life differently than before. For many people, it's often a wake-up call that our time here is limited before we realize it's...
11 days ago • 2 min read
If you’re feeling exhausted, discouraged, or disillusioned right now, you’re not failing, you’re in a growth season. Career and business momentum doesn’t disappear because you’re tired. It disappears when exhaustion turns into self-doubt and quiet withdrawal. Momentum isn’t built by doing more. It’s built by staying connected to who you’re becoming, even in low-energy seasons. This guide will help you keep moving forward without burning out, abandoning your goals, or forcing productivity that...
23 days ago • 1 min read
This week’s podcast was a personal one. I talked about the moment I realised my 'stable' corporate job was not safety and what I’ve learned after almost 30 years in HR about real financial security for women. Here’s a summary of the key ideas, plus one simple action step you can take this week. CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE PODCAST Job Security Is Mostly an Illusion We’re taught: 'Get a good job, climb the ladder, and you’ll be safe.' But from the HR side, I’ve seen: People made redundant in...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Have you ever written a LinkedIn post, felt good about it, then suddenly your chest tightens, your mind races, and you quietly close the app? You tell yourself, 'This is silly. It’s just LinkedIn.' But your body feels like you’re about to step on stage in front of 10,000 people. In this week’s podcast episode, I break down why that happens and what you can do about it. This isn’t about algorithms or content tricks. It’s about the psychology behind your fear of being seen. Your Brain Is Wired...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Over the years in HR, I’ve noticed something. It’s often the smartest, most capable women in the room who stay the quietest. They have the ideas, see the problems before anyone else and know how to make things better. But when it’s time to speak up in a meeting, ask for what they want, or show up on LinkedIn, they stay silent. Not because they’re weak, don’t care or that they’re not good enough. They stay silent because being seen doesn’t feel safe. Why smart women stay silent In this week’s...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Hello Reader, I want to talk about something most working moms in business feel but rarely say out loud: 'I’m so tired… and I feel like I’m falling behind.' Last week, between my new corporate job, client work, and family life, I barely had any time to work on my business. No posting, hardly any LinkedIn engagement, zero progress on my new program. And the first thing I did? Not rest. Not reset. Instead, I judged myself. 'This is why your business isn’t growing.''Other people are signing...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Hello Reader, Last week I felt like everything was too much. New job. Kids. Business ideas. Exhaustion.Zero time. Zero energy.And I’ll be honest, part of me wanted to quit everything. But I can’t. I’m the primary earner. My income matters.And I know you might feel this too, pulled between responsibility and dreams. So this week’s podcast is for both of us. What I Shared in the Episode: The breakdown that led to this episode Why feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean you’re failing My 10-step...
2 months ago • 1 min read