[Sunday Digest] Being different and defying conventional wisdom could be your superpower!


Hi Reader,

How has your week been?

I recently had my second article published in The Startup since returning to Medium (yes, I'm totally counting because, wow! did that make me feel good!). I shared the unexpected and invisible perks about running a side hustle, which I still think is the best real life school ever if you want to learn the skills to be successful and live a happy, fulfiling life!

Like so many people, when I started my side hustle at first, it was simply to make more money to pay off debt. The idea of financial and time freedom appealed to me. But this endeavour has grown into so much more than that...

Another insight I got this past week was all about how being different could actually be my superpower. I used to feel like the odd one out. I was the quiet, invisible, shy and overweight girl in school. Not very bright, always in the slowest class in school. When I started working, colleagues would say somehow I was different - and I felt that way too, always so afraid of speaking up.

But this week, I realised that yes, I've done many things differently than what conventional wisdom says you should. Like:

  • Deliberately and consciously choosing not to climb the corporate ladder yet earning way more than if I did by staying on the path I was on.
  • Going home on time every day since my kids were born and still consistently being rated a high performer at work.
  • Never attending after hours company events yet doing well at work even though they said socialising after work was necessary to be successful.
  • Running a side business despite being a busy, full time breadwinning mom to 2 kids.
  • Being financially independent even though I didn't have any such role models because I was surrounded by traditional family models where the men were the providers.
  • Becoming a leadership trainer and coach who loves public speaking even though I'm a shy, introvert at heart (huh? still figuring this one out!)

I'm saying all this not to show off (because, who likes a show off?), but to share a realisation that there are unlimited paths to success!

Don't doubt yourself and the power you have to create the life you want, even if you think it defies conventional wisdom and what 'they' say you can have.

How are you defying conventional wisdom with what you're doing? I'd love to hear about it. Hit reply and tell me!

Have a good week ahead.

Sharon

P.S. Have you heard about my new 5-day email course to get anything you want? It's free, so CLICK HERE to start the course!

Sharon Singh Sidhu

Sign up to get updated on new podcast episodes where I share how I'm building the career of my dreams.

Read more from Sharon Singh Sidhu

Reader, Nobody ever has spare cash or time lying around. But when it matters, somehow you find it. Like signing your kids up for activities they want, buying your loved ones a fancy birthday dinner, or in my case, investing in myself and my dream business. Last night, I finally dropped $3k on a program I've been thinking about doing for the past 2 years. Each time I had wanted to do it, it felt like too much money - money I didn't have. This time, it isn't that I have the money - of course...

Hi Reader, I ended up the breadwinner, and started a business on the side of my job out of necessity. I had a 6-figure business debt, school going kids to support, my husband wasn't able to work, and I to leave an untenable work situation meaning we had no income. Sounds dramatic, and it definitely caused a lot of stress and anxiety at the time. But that was also when I decided that I was going to get smart about money because nobody was coming to save me I also realized that being in a...

Reader, Work expands to fill the time you give it. That's Parkinson's Law. This past week, I tried giving myself 10 minutes to write my daily LinkedIn post in the mornings. It worked. It might be stressful to some, but it energized me, as I watched the timer counting down while I typed away. 10 minutes isn't a magic number - there's no research behind it. It's just what I could fit into an already early start at 4.30am after my morning routine. So now, my morning routine looks like this...