Why I made this decision even though I was scared


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I felt a little sick after making that payment.

It was for a mastermind I’d been thinking about for months.

And the next day, the doubts came almost immediately.

  • What if it doesn’t work?
  • What were you thinking?
  • You could’ve used that money for the kids’ university.

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This is something people don’t talk about enough.

Making decisions about money when you’re responsible for more than just yourself.

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I didn’t make this decision lightly. I made it because of how I’ve designed my career.

A job gives me stability. Building a business alongside it gives me options.

It allows me to invest in myself without putting my family at risk.

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I also know myself well enough.

  • When I pay, I pay attention.
  • When there’s a deadline, I follow through.
  • When I commit, I show up differently.

That’s what I was really investing in.

Not just the mastermind. But the version of me that steps up when it matters.

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Looking back, the fear didn’t mean it was the wrong decision.

It meant I was taking a chance on myself.

And that’s hard when you’ve done that before and it didn’t work out.

It’s choosing to believe in yourself again without much proof that it will.

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This is the part of career design most people don’t see.

It’s not just about:

  • what job you have
  • or whether you start a business

It’s about creating the ability to make decisions that move your life forward.

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Not everyone will choose the same path.

But the question is, have you designed your career in a way that gives you that choice?

It's something to think about for the coming week.

Sharon

P.S. I'm thinking about offering a paid masterclass about how to redesign your career to build beyond your salary. It's likely to be about USD49 for a 60 minute class. You get the notes, action steps, and recording after. Would this be something you're interested in? If so, reply with 'coffee' and I'll share more details with you.

Sharon Singh Sidhu

I help women build financial independence through their career, and by making money outside their job. For women tired of their corporate role, burnt out, or starting over after a job loss. Weekly newsletter: https://substack.com/@sharonsinghsidhu

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